Big corporations are making big bucks, luring men into staring at a screen with their hands down their pants. Isn’t it ironic that a portion of these men have another person, significant other in the house hold, probably very capable of having person-to-person sex with them, yet many men are choosing to experience this pleasure solo? It’s also not uncommon for women to be in the same boat.
Watching porn may seem like a harmless escape, but think again. Porn makes you tired, awkward, and socially inept. Masturbation addiction is a real thing. One nurse who used to work in the porn industry say that she could “see it in their eyes,” when men admitted to having a masturbation addiction. Their eyes were dead, less lively. They were just waiting for their next “fix” (orgasm, alone). Masturbating alone in front of a screen can lead to depression, guilt throughout the day, hair loss, decreased interest in sex, groin/testicular pain, and fatigue/feeling tired all the time.
FEMALES AND PORN
Did you know porn stars are NOT happy in front of the screen? Even if they look happy, many of them are smiling because of the heavy drugs that they are on. Most porn stars do not live past age 50 due to drug overdoses, sexually transmitted diseases, murder by pimps/pornography producers, or suicide. A demand for porn increases the demand for sex trafficking. The C.I.A estimated that 100,000 girls, boys and women are sex trafficked into America annually. Almost every woman seen in porn has been sexually abused, and 1.4 million end up being victims of sexual servitude. Though the porn industry may look glamorous, the victims (“porn stars”) are being beaten, abused, potentially held at gun point unless they perform sexual acts.
PORN ON YOUR BRAIN
Seeing a naked lady bent over could put you in a trance. You see one image, and you’re instantly intoxicated. You HAVE to touch yourself. They do say masturbation is healthy, right? What could doing this just one more time do to me? If everyone’s doing it, and it’s this nice, there’s nothing wrong with this. Well, you’re wrong. Many men admitted that after doing it one time, they were tempted to doing it another when they had more time on their hands. Before they knew it, it was a habit. Men don’t realize the harmful effects of porn on the brain. Like a drug, pornography can be craved, and also like a drug, it builds you up a little, but lets you down much further. It can make you see the average woman as something to have sex with. Why slowly allow yourself to evolve into a perve?
WHAT CAN I DO IF I WANT TO STOP?
If you’ve made porn into an addiction (multiple times per week), here’s what you can do.
1. Realize that porn is hurting you, not helping. Watching porn isolates you, warps your mind, takes away your ability to talk to real girls, breeds guilt and depression, and lowers self-esteem.
2. When you feel bored, lonely, maybe depressed, and maybe a little horny, try masturbating WITHOUT pornography. Decide that you’re not going to give into women being sold into American sex slavery, since pornography is the main demand for sex slavery.
3. Get out of the house! Right now! Pick up the phone and visit someone you haven’t seen in a while, even if you don’t want to at first. Even if you don’t have that great of a time, do it again. It will become enjoyable after you get used to it. Call up another friend you never see. Decide to do something you haven’t done in a while. Go for a run. Go lift weights. Go to the shelter and adopt a dog to take with you while you run.
4. Decide that you’re not going to be a person who sees other people as objects, no matter how attractive that may seem to you right now. People are people. Every woman in the world has the capability to be sexual and alluring. Go meet a real women, get to know her, and later get to that point (once you know her and she consents, obviously). I can’t stress to you enough how much more satisfying it will be and how much happier with your life you’ll be.
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